Kink Chart

Discover what excites you, connects you, and helps you feel closer to your partner. This interactive kink chart is a fun, judgment-free way to explore your desires, boundaries, and curiosities — whether you’re just beginning your journey or already know what you enjoy.

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Pick what makes you curious. Download your results when you’re done — or get them sent to your inbox if you want 😉

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Connection

How do you emotionally and physically connect with your partner? Let them know what makes you feel close and intimate.

Emotional Intimacy

Deep conversations

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Sharing personal secrets

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Eye gazing

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Vulnerability and trust

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Physical Intimacy

Hugging / Cuddling

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Soft touches

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Holding hands

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Massage

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Kissing (body/mouth)

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Deep Spooning

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Communication

Sweet talk

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Dirty talk

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Sexting

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Roleplay dialogues

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Aftercare

Gentle words

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Emotional check-ins

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Post-play cuddling

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Exploratory Play

Curious about trying new things? Let them know how open you are to exploring different dynamics and sensations.

Curiosity-driven Play

Role reversal

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Sensory play (blindfolds, feathers, temperature)

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Light bondage (handcuffs, silk ties)

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Experimenting with Power

Dom/Sub dynamics

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Switch play

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Controlled teasing (denial/edging)

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Role reversal within a session

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Environment

Public setting (discreet)

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Semi-public/private (hotel, vacation)

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Digital play (virtual, video calls)

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Roleplay Scenarios

From fantasy to real-life scenarios, let them know what roleplays you’re into or curious about.

Fantasy Roleplay

Superhero/heroine

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Villain/anti-hero

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Sci-fi/Futuristic (robots, space)

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Vampire/Werewolf

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Monster/Beast

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Authority & Power Dynamics

Boss/Employee

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Teacher/Student

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Master/Servant

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Officer/Civilian

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Doctor/Patient

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Surreal Play

Time Travel

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Transformation

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Alien worlds

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Magical realms

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Reincarnation cycles

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Sensory & Control

Do you enjoy heightening or limiting sensations? Let them know your preferences for sensory play and control.

Sensory Deprivation

Blindfolds

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Noise-canceling headphones

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Complete darkness

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Full-body sensory denial

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Sensory Overload

Loud music, sounds

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Bright lights or flashing lights

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Strong smells (candles, incense)

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Simultaneous multi-sensory play (vibration, temperature play)

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Body Control

Restraints (cuffs, ropes, silk ties)

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Immobilization (stocks, bondage furniture)

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Gags (ball gags, bit gags, cloth gags)

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Breath play (light control, masks)

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Clothing & Appearance

Does what you or your partner wear matter? Let them know how clothing and appearance play into your preferences.

Outfits

Lingerie (lace, silk, cotton)

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Uniforms (nurse, maid, police)

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Role-specific clothing (superhero, schoolgirl)

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Leather outfits

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Materials

Latex

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PVC/Vinyl

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Satin

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Fur/Faux fur

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Accessories

High heels

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Stockings

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Gloves (leather, lace)

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Hats or headpieces

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Corsets

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Power & Control Dynamics

How do you feel about dominance and submission? Let them know whether you like being in control or giving it up.

Dominance & Submission

Light D/s dynamics

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Full-time D/s lifestyle

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Switching roles (in a session or over time)

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Control Mechanisms

Leashes & Collars

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Physical punishments (spanking, paddles)

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Verbal orders and commands

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Objectification (being treated as furniture, pet play)

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Punishment & Reward

Time-out as punishment

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Physical punishment (floggers, caning)

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Rewards (treats, praise, or privileges)

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Fantasy & Surrealism

Do you like stepping outside reality? Let them know how far your imagination goes with fantasy and surreal play.

Supernatural Creatures

Vampires/Werewolves

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Mythical creatures (dragons, centaurs)

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Ghosts/Spirits

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Altered Reality

Body modifications (tentacles, extra limbs)

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Shape-shifting

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Metamorphosis / Transformation

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Futuristic (robots, cyber-enhancement)

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Otherworldly Environments

Space stations/Alien worlds

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Magical forests/Underwater realms

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Time travel scenarios

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Group Play & Voyeurism

How do you feel about group dynamics, voyeurism, or exhibitionism? Let them know your preferences.

Threesomes & Moresomes

MFM (Male-Female-Male)

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FMF (Female-Male-Female)

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Group sex/orgies

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Same-gender groupings (all-male/all-female)

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Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

Watching others (voyeur)

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Being watched (exhibitionism)

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Mutual watching

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Filming or recording encounters

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Couple Play

Swinging (partner swapping)

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Cuckolding / Cuckqueaning

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Shared partner experiences (polyamory)

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Impact & Sensation Play

How do you like to experience touch and sensation? Let them know what feels right for you.

Impact Play

Light spanking (hand)

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Paddles

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Floggers

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Canes

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Whips

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Temperature Play

Ice cubes

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Hot wax

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Hot stones

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Alternating temperatures (cold/hot)

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Tactile Sensation

Feathers

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Scratchy surfaces (nails, rough materials)

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Gentle slapping/tapping

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Fluid & Body Play

Are you comfortable with bodily fluids or extreme play? Let them know your boundaries.

Body Fluids

Cum play

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Watersports

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Blood play (safely)

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Sweat play

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Messy Play

Food play (chocolate, whipped cream)

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Mud play

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Paint or slime

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Kink Chart

Connection

Emotional Intimacy

Physical Intimacy

Communication

Aftercare

Exploratory Play

Curiosity-driven Play

Experimenting with Power

Environment

Roleplay Scenarios

Fantasy Roleplay

Authority & Power Dynamics

Surreal Play

Sensory & Control

Sensory Deprivation

Sensory Overload

Body Control

Clothing & Appearance

Outfits

Materials

Accessories

Power & Control Dynamics

Dominance & Submission

Control Mechanisms

Punishment & Reward

Fantasy & Surrealism

Supernatural Creatures

Altered Reality

Otherworldly Environments

Group Play & Voyeurism

Threesomes & Moresomes

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

Couple Play

Impact & Sensation Play

Impact Play

Temperature Play

Tactile Sensation

Fluid & Body Play

Body Fluids

Messy Play

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