70 Slave Training Examples

Share this with someone:

a black handcuffs and a whip

Here are 70 ideas and examples for BDSM slave training, each aimed at deepening the dynamic between a Dominant and a submissive while fostering trust, discipline, and enjoyment.

Table of Contents

Daily Rituals and Commands

  1. Morning Ritual: Have your slave wake you up with a cup of coffee or tea, served on their knees.
  2. Daily Check-In: Require your slave to send a morning message detailing how they plan to serve you that day.
  3. Gratitude Journal: Make them keep a journal where they note how they’ve served you and what they’re grateful for each day.
  4. Task Assignment: Give your slave one task every day, whether it’s household chores or personal improvement.
  5. Posture Training: Instruct your slave to maintain a specific posture (e.g., straight back, chin up) whenever they are in your presence.
  6. Kneeling Ritual: Have your slave kneel at your feet for a certain amount of time each evening, as a gesture of submission.
  7. Clothing Control: Choose their outfit each day, or assign a dress code for specific events.
  8. Body Worship: Instruct your slave to kiss or worship a part of your body at certain times, such as your feet or hands.
  9. Grooming Standards: Set grooming rules (e.g., always shaved, nails trimmed) and check regularly for compliance.
  10. Mantra Repetition: Have your slave recite a mantra like, “My place is to serve,” every morning and evening.

WAIT !

Before you buy your next BDSM toy, check out our top 10 product recommendations:
Hey..

Physical Activities and Training

  1. Pet Play: Use a leash and collar, and instruct them to crawl to you or around the house.
  2. Chastity Control: Place them in chastity for a set time and reward them with orgasm control based on good behavior.
  3. Orgasm Denial: Deny orgasms as a form of discipline, rewarding them with release when they’ve earned it.
  4. Forced Orgasm: Use toys like a wand to give your slave multiple orgasms, pushing their limits and reinforcing your control.
  5. Silent Obedience: Use ticklers or light touches, and instruct them to remain silent—punishing them if they make noise.
  6. Spanking: Incorporate spanking as a reward or punishment, with specific rules for how and when it happens.
  7. Corner Time: Have your slave spend time in the corner, focusing on their submission.
  8. Public Control: Instruct your slave to wear a subtle symbol of their submission (such as a collar under clothing) in public.
  9. Restraints: Train your slave with restraints, such as cuffs or rope, practicing patience and surrender.
  10. Daily Exercise: Assign them physical tasks like exercising to stay in shape for you.

Emotional Bonding and Mental Conditioning

  1. Mindful Obedience: Have your slave meditate on their role in the relationship for a few minutes every day.
  2. Verbal Affirmation: Require your slave to affirm their submission with verbal praise, like saying “Thank you, Master” after being corrected.
  3. Eye Contact Rules: Forbid eye contact unless explicitly granted.
  4. Speech Control: Teach them to only speak when spoken to, or require them to ask permission before speaking.
  5. Punishment Journal: Have them document their punishments and reflect on how they will avoid repeating mistakes.
  6. Writing Assignments: Assign essays or written lines to reinforce lessons, such as “I serve with grace and humility” 50 times.
  7. Positive Reinforcement: Praise your slave often when they meet expectations, reinforcing their behavior.
  8. Deprivation Play: Take away privileges (e.g., TV, phone) as a form of mental conditioning.
  9. Slave Affirmation: Have them record daily affirmations about their role and responsibilities.
  10. Confession Time: Make your slave confess anything they feel they did wrong during the day, encouraging honesty and accountability.
bondage punishment

Rewards and Punishments

  1. Reward with Playtime: Allow your slave to indulge in a sexual fantasy they have earned through good behavior.
  2. Gift Reward: Reward them with a small gift, such as a new collar or piece of lingerie, when they’ve been obedient.
  3. Meal Punishment: Forbid them from eating with utensils or make them eat from a bowl as a form of discipline.
  4. Humiliation Punishment: Incorporate light humiliation when they fail to follow rules, such as making them apologize while kneeling.
  5. Praise for Submission: Offer verbal praise as a reward when they execute tasks well, reinforcing their behavior.
  6. Time Out: Use isolation as a punishment, such as making them sit alone without contact.
  7. Bondage as Discipline: Use extended bondage sessions as punishment for serious offenses.
  8. Service Reward: Allow them to serve you directly (e.g., massage, personal service) as a reward.
  9. Orgasm as Reward: Permit an orgasm only after they’ve completed a difficult task or shown exemplary obedience.
  10. Punishment via Writing: Assign them to write an apology letter or essay on how they can improve.

Sexual Control and Play

  1. Nipple or Clit Clamps: Use clamps during meals or chores to reinforce submission.
  2. Tail Butt Plug: Incorporate pet play with a tail butt plug, increasing the level of playful submission.
  3. Dress in Sexy Lingerie: Have your slave dress in lingerie for you, even if there’s no sexual interaction afterward.
  4. Oral Servitude: Instruct them to orally serve you as a form of reward or punishment.
  5. Masturbation Control: Allow them to masturbate only under your supervision and direction.
  6. Spreader Bars: Use a spreader bar to expose them for sexual use, reinforcing physical submission.
  7. Sexual Denial: Deny sexual interaction for a set time, increasing their anticipation and obedience.
  8. Erotic Writing Assignment: Have them write erotic stories based on your dynamic or a sexual fantasy.
  9. Daily Sexting Task: Instruct your slave to send you a sext or erotic image at a specified time each day.
  10. Orgasm Teasing: Edge them close to orgasm but deny it as a way to test their patience.
orgasm control

Service and Domestic Tasks

  1. Cooking in a Collar: Have your slave cook and serve you a meal while wearing nothing but a collar.
  2. Household Chores: Assign domestic tasks such as cleaning, folding clothes, or organizing your space.
  3. Hand Feeding: Allow them to serve you a meal and feed you by hand as a sign of devotion.
  4. Meal Preparation: Have them plan and prepare all meals according to your dietary preferences.
  5. Shoe Polishing: Instruct them to polish and clean your shoes every week.
  6. Run Errands: Assign them simple errands like picking up groceries or getting your coffee.
  7. Slave as Butler/Waitress: Create a night where your slave serves you in a formal butler or waitress capacity.
  8. Foot Worship After a Long Day: Have your slave give you a foot rub after you return from work or a long day.
  9. Housework in Lingerie: Assign housework to your slave while dressed in lingerie or an apron only.
  10. Draw a Bath: Instruct your slave to prepare a bath for you at the end of the day.

Advanced Training Techniques

  1. Submissive Positions: Train your slave in submissive positions, such as kneeling, head down, or lying prostrate.
  2. Daily Affirmation Rituals: Have them recite affirmations like “I serve willingly and obediently” each morning.
  3. Name Rituals: Make them address you by your title (e.g., “Master”) consistently, both in private and in public settings.
  4. Memory Training: Teach them to memorize specific phrases or mantras that you can recall at any time.
  5. Respectful Silence: Train them to remain silent unless given permission to speak.
  6. Obedience Diary: Require them to keep a daily diary of their obedience, writing what they did to serve you each day.
  7. Slavery Contract: Draft and agree upon a slave contract that outlines rules, rewards, punishments, and goals for your relationship.
  8. Pain Tolerance Training: Use light pain such as flogging or spanking to test their tolerance and obedience.
  9. Ritualized Punishment: Establish set rituals for punishment, such as them kneeling before you and asking for correction.
  10. Meditation on Submission: Have your slave meditate on their submission for 10 minutes daily, reflecting on their role in the dynamic.
These activities can help reinforce the power exchange in a BDSM dynamic while fostering trust, communication, and emotional bonding. Remember, everything should be consensual, and the ultimate goal is to build a relationship based on mutual respect and shared desires.

And don’t forget to check out our Best BDSM Toy Picks..

Scroll to Top